A few weeks ago I had the honor of helping throw a baby shower for my dear friend Keisha. She is expecting her 2nd baby, little Ketziah very soon. It had been a while since I had thrown a baby shower and as I was preparing I remembered how much fun it is to put all these little foods and decorations together. I have been in kind of a rut with cooking lately and I am feeling much more inspired to be creative now, thanks Keisha!
For some reason I have just loved throwing baby showers, I think I have done or at least helped with at lease 12 showers in the last 5 years. I started to look back at the different pictures I had, here is a progression.
Beginning with my first shower in 2003 for my friend Michelle, I pulled an all nighter for this one. It doesn't really look like it but the ABC block cake took forever.

This was a double shower in 2006, for my friends Heidi and Rachael both having baby girls around the same time.

The last is the one for Keisha a few weeks ago. I had the honor of throwing her first shower for baby Malia too, but I couldn't find any of those pictures.

OK, I admit that none of these come close to anything that a caterer would do. In the beginning I was really trying so hard to make things just look like Martha Stewart had made them. But the more I tried, the more would go wrong. Over the years I feel like God has really worked on my heart with regards to hospitality and entertaining. I have realized that it is more about loving people and enjoying fellowship, not about having the perfect color scheme or some fancy cake on display. Now I think I am learning the process of how to use the details and creativity, but not have it be about what I have done, but what Christ has done through me to love others. I am still learning, the more I focus on allowing my identity in Christ, the less I feel like my identity is in pleasing people through a nice home or perfect food.